Things Stops You From Being Happy

Everyone in this world wants to be happy but very few people are happy. We are not living our life with full joy and happiness. Do you know the reason why we are not happy? I will give answer of this later in my post. Every child is bundle of joy, but as we grow up, somewhere, we lose that joy. A child smiles 400 times a day. When a child grows up and becomes an adolescent, he smiles only 17 times a day, and when he becomes an adult, he smiles occasionally and that too when someone else smiles. I will tell you three things that stops us to being joyful like a child and we need to get rid of all these three things:
Things Stops You From Being Happy
Things Stops You From Being Happy

#1. Stress

One of the biggest factor that stops you to being happy is "Stress". We always waste out time in thinking. So according to me Stress is " wanting to do a lot but having no energy and no time." Now to get rid of stress, either you have to reduce your needs or increase your energy. In these two things, what is most practical is not reducing your needs, but increasing your energy levels.
Now how do we increase our energy levels? Through breathing exercises, pranayama, meditation, and yoga. All of these increase the energy levels of a person in a short period time of 15 to 20 minutes. There are number of breathing techniques that help us relax and get back a lot of energy.
Relaxation that you get from sleep is dull relaxation. Another kind of relaxation is conscious relaxation. That relaxation brings your energy levels higher. That is called meditation. Meditation is not sitting and thinking something. It is going to the source of thought.
So reducing and eliminating stress is the first thing.

#2. Prejudice

There are many types of prejudice. There is prejudice between generations where young people will not sit and share with senior citizens. There is a generation gap. There is prejudice about class, about gender, about religion, culture, language, and so on in many parts of the world; so many types of prejudices. Wisdom is to rise above prejudice and see the whole world as one family.
If everyone has this idea of a one world family, there will be no war, no crime and none of the problems that we are facing in the world today. See how many people are being killed. There is so much violence in the world. This is all because of lack of a broad vision and wisdom.

#3. Insecurity

Insecurity of what? 'Oh, there is nobody for me. Who will take care of me?' I tell you, there is so much love and compassion on this planet, and there is a higher power which is all love and it will give you what you need and when you need.
If you look at your own life, in the past, how many times have you felt insecure?
All those moments you have spent feeling insecure, appears to be such a waste of time, isnt it? Count and see how much time you have spent being insecure in the past 20 years. How many days you spent in a gloomy mood? It is such a waste of time and energy, and not only that, it created toxins in your body. Do you know, your health gets disturbed by the feeling of insecurity.
Three things you must do:
  • Look back in the past and see that it was futile feeling insecure. This gives you strength
  • Know that there are good people on this planet. They will always come to your help
  • There is a power which is going to guide you and help you out
With this wisdom and understanding, get over insecurity. By doing yoga, meditation and breathing techniques you can get rid off stress. With wisdom, get over prejudice, and reflecting on your own life and having the confidence and faith, get over insecurity.

Once you get over stress, insecurity and prejudice, then you are like a child, full of joy, and happiness simply wells up in you. Happiness is already there, it is just covered by these three things, and once you removed all these three things, it becomes obvious.

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